It always seems to cliche to talk about the weather, but sometimes it just needs to be done! The weather this weekend has been lovely, the sun has been shinning brightly and it lured me outside for a walk so I could enjoy it. While I was out I met so many dogs and their Owners, playing together in the sunshine and making the most of the outdoor space.
I long to have a dog, they are such great company and make going out for walks so much more fun. Unfortunately my current living situation and lifestyle make having a dog impossible. I sometimes feel resentful about this. I think that as I haven’t had children I should at least be blessed with a dog! It really isn’t possible at the moment. I don’t have enough space in my home, certainly no outdoor space which I think would be important. I also spend a long hours out of my home working and I’m don’t think this would be fair on a dog, they thrive on company and I’m not sure the cats would count as they would most certainly be very put out by the addition to their space!
I have always lived with cats, apart from a couple of years in college digs, and find them great company. I love their independence, the fact they choose to come back and live with me. I currently have two cats and they provide me with a lot of love and laughter. I know that I am in no position to have a dog but that doesn’t stop me from yearning for one.
When I was 14 years old we got a dog, she was a cross between a Labrador and a springer spaniel, she was a lovely good natured dog and I feel lucky to have had her around to comfort me when I was feeling blue. I remember fondly some wonderful walks with her and loved the fact she could accompany me to the shops or the pub; I could take her with me to visit friends, she really was a constant companion.
When I think about some of the children and young people I have worked with, who have experienced a number of different placements over their lives, each one stripping them of stability, I realise how overwhelming this must be. It struck me that if each of them had a pet that could stay with them then I think this would go some way to helping them maintain some stability in their life, which is one of the most important foundations required for a fulfilling life.
I am determined that at some point in my life I will have a dog. I will change my circumstances so that I can accommodate a dog and enjoy all the benefits this will bring. Until that time comes I will have to make do enjoying other people’s and keep on dreaming!